Choose someone whose work you respect.
When choosing a mentor, you should select someone whose work you respect. A good mentor will provide you with the knowledge, skills, and confidence to tackle your challenges and opportunities head-on.
Mentorship is a two-way relationship, so it’s essential that both parties feel they are getting something out of the arrangement. If your mentor doesn’t seem to be invested in helping you grow personally or professionally, then move on—you don’t need that kind of negativity in your life!
Mentors should be busy people.
When you choose a mentor, it’s important to remember that they will be busy. Busy people usually get stuff done—and if they don’t, they probably won’t be of much help to you. So when selecting a work mentor, make sure that the person has resources and time available for your mentorship relationship, even if those resources are minimal.
It may be tempting to choose someone who seems like they have “enough time on their hands,” but don’t fall into this trap! If a potential mentor does have a lot of room in their schedule for mentoring work with you, it could mean they aren’t fully committed to the tasks and responsibilities of their role. It’s always better to pick someone who may not be able to devote as much time to mentoring than someone who has one foot out the door.
Find a mentor who works across generations.
Mentoring is a two-way street, and it’s essential to find someone who can give you what you need. You might want to work with someone older than you, and that’s okay! They might have more experience or wisdom to impart. But mentors aren’t just elder statespeople—they can be people of any age, even younger than their mentees. A younger mentor may offer different perspectives on your career path or relate better because they’ve recently been on a similar journey.
One thing that makes this type of mentor-mentee relationship so great is how much they can teach each other: both sides are learning as they go along!
Give it time and effort.
- You will be spending time with this person, and it’s essential that you choose someone you like and respect.
- Mentorship is a two-way street; you need to be willing to put in the time and effort necessary to make the mentorship work.
- Show up prepared for meetings, ask questions, and ensure your mentor knows how much you are learning from them.
- Mentorships can last many years or just a few months—it all depends on what is being learned by both parties involved in the relationship.
Choosing the right mentor can help you grow in your career.
Finding the right work mentor can help you grow in your career and life. Mentors can be a big part of your success, but choosing the right person for the job is essential. Here are some tips for choosing a mentor:
- Choosing someone you admire may be the most critical factor in ensuring that your relationship with them is successful and mutually beneficial—you want someone who inspires you!
- Don’t ask people directly for a mentor; instead, ask them questions about their experiences or how they would approach certain situations at work. This will help both you and them figure out whether or not there’s potential for mentorship between the two of you. Ask yourself these questions: What do I want from this relationship? How much do I want to learn from this person? Do I have enough time available to commit myself fully over time? If so, then go ahead! If not (or if there’s doubt), then don’t pursue it any further than this initial conversation around what “mentorship” means between two people at different stages in their careers.
Ultimately, a mentor is someone who can help you grow your career and is an integral part of getting you to where you want to be in your career. A good mentor will have enough life experience to give you advice and steer you in the right direction. Choosing the right mentor is an important career decision and one that requires careful consideration and planning.